{"id":5149,"date":"2025-03-18T12:23:09","date_gmt":"2025-03-18T12:23:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.theblyde.com\/?p=5149"},"modified":"2025-03-18T12:23:09","modified_gmt":"2025-03-18T12:23:09","slug":"everyone-says-im-running-away","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.theblyde.com\/?p=5149","title":{"rendered":"Everyone Says I’m Running Away"},"content":{"rendered":"
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When I first started traveling, my dad used to ask what I\u2019m running away from with my travels. Another time, a commenter told me to stop running away from my problems and to start living life. \u201cGrow up,\u201d he said. <\/p>\n

And, years ago, there was even a blog called \u201cMom says I\u2019m running away.\u201d<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not sure why, but there is this perception out there that anyone who travels long term and isn\u2019t interested in settling down or getting a conventional job must<\/em> be running away from something<\/em>. <\/p>\n

We travelers are running away from responsibility, being a grown-up, heartache, problems, etc, etc. We are all just Peter Pans refusing to be \u201cadults.\u201d<\/p>\n

While American society thinks traveling is something everyone should do at one point, it\u2019s only gap years after college or short vacations that seem to be acceptable. Get it out of your system and come back into The Matrix. <\/p>\n

Those of us who lead nomadic lifestyles, or who linger just a bit too long somewhere before reaching that final homestretch, are all too often accused of running away.<\/p>\n

Yes, go travel \u2014 but not for too long, the world says. Responsible people don\u2019t just travel forever. <\/p>\n

We nomads must have awful, miserable lives, or are weird, or have had something traumatic happen to us that we are trying to escape. People assume that we are simply running away from our problems, running away from \u201cthe real world.\u201d<\/p>\n

And to all those people who think I am running away, I say: you are right. <\/p>\n

I am<\/em> running away.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m running away from your<\/em> idea of the \u201creal\u201d world.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m avoiding your<\/em> life.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m running towards everything \u2014 towards the world, exotic places, new people, different cultures, and my own idea of freedom. I\u2019m building a life that makes me happy. <\/p>\n

While there may be exceptions (as there are with everything), most people who become nomads do so because they want to experience the world, not escape their problems. They are running away from office life, commutes, and weekend errands, and the corporate 9 to 5. They are running away from the strict path society has laid out as \u201cnormal.\u201d The one that makes us mindless ants marching to and fro.<\/p>\n

We (I) want to experience every culture, see every mountain, eat different food, attend crazy festivals, meet new people, and enjoy different holidays around the world. We want to construct a life that makes us happy on our own terms. <\/p>\n

Life is short and we only get to live it once. I want to look back and say I did exciting things and lived life on my own terms, not say I spent my life reading blogs like this during my lunch break while wishing I was doing the same thing.<\/p>\n

No one dies saying, \u201cIf only I had spent more time in the office!\u201d<\/p>\n

As an American, my perspective might be different. In my country, the accepted path is long and narrow: you go to college, get a job, get married, buy a house, have 2.5 children, raise them, and then retire. Only then, after you\u2019ve put in your time, can you enjoy the fruits of your labor. Society boxes you in and restricts your movements to their expectations.<\/p>\n

And any deviation is considered abnormal and weird. <\/p>\n

People may want to travel, tell you they envy what you do, and say they wish they could do the same thing. But they never do. Few people muster the courage to take the leap, no matter how much their heart pulls them. They are simply fascinated by a lifestyle so outside the norm. <\/p>\n

While social media, the rise of digital nomading, and websites like this have made quitting your job to travel the world or teach English in Thailand a little more acceptable, the general attitude is still \u201cfollow the path if you want to be normal.\u201d<\/p>\n

Well, I don\u2019t want to be normal.<\/p>\n

I feel like the reason why people tell us we are running away is that they can\u2019t fathom the fact that we broke the mold and are living outside the norm. To want<\/em> to break all of society\u2019s conventions, there simply must be something wrong with us. (Maybe they are a little jealous too?)<\/p>\n

But life is what you make it out to be. Life is yours to create. We are all chained down by the burdens we place upon ourselves, whether they are bills, errands, or, like me, self-imposed blogging deadlines. If you really want something, you have to go after it.<\/p>\n

People who travel the world aren\u2019t running away from life. Just the opposite. Those that break the mold, explore the world, and live on their own terms are running toward true living, in my opinion. We have a degree of freedom a lot of people will never experience. We get to be the captains of our ships. <\/p>\n

But it is a freedom we chose to have. <\/p>\n

We looked around and said, \u201cI want something different<\/em>.\u201d <\/p>\n

And then we went for it.<\/p>\n

It was that freedom and attitude I saw in travelers years ago in Thailand that inspired me to do lead the life I am now. I saw them break the mold and I thought to myself, \u201cWhy not me?\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not running away.<\/p>\n

No. <\/p>\n

I am just running towards my own idea of a normal life.<\/p>\n

And I never plan to look back.
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Source: https:\/\/www.nomadicmatt.com\/travel-blogs\/everyone-say-im-running-away\/<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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